Hi, I'm Rachel!
Sexologist | Sex Coach & Educator | Advocate for Female Pleasure
I believe that every woman, and every relationship, deserves to experience true passion and pleasure.
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However, the reality of sex and female pleasure can often be very different, especially as a relationship progresses over time. ​​​​​​
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A loss of desire for your partner or for sex in general, difficulty reaching orgasm or getting pleasure from it, not feeling sexy in yourself, getting bored with sex or feeling like it's just another chore, never feeling in the mood, feeling like you can't talk to your partner about what turns you on or your fantasies - these are all very common issues that many woman experience at some point in their lives. ​​​
Does any of this sound familiar? That's because all of these issues are normal, you are not alone! The good news is, that these are exactly the type of things we can help with!
​Although these issues are so common and many women experience them, it's not something people often talk about, with most choosing to ignore the issues, or continue thinking that there is something wrong with them, rather than seeking help. The answer may be as simple as a little education and some communication.
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The fundamentals of female pleasure are not something that are usually taught - either to women, to men, or to couples - and many women can end up missing out on true pleasure, and giving up on the hope of ever really achieving it. ​
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The extent of our sex education usually consists of a few classes during secondary school or college that teach us how to roll on a condom, loosely show us where the clitoris and a few other parts of the vulva and penis are, info about STI’s, menstruation and birth control. But outside of that? Our education on the core fundamentals of female pleasure is seriously lacking. ​​
If we don’t learn about sex ed and female pleasure in school, then where else? Spicy books? Porn? Gossip with your girlfriends? The latest IG influencer? ​
Erotic novels, porn, talking with our friends, and influencers are some of the most common ways in which we learn about sex and pleasure, yet I would hardly describe any of these as actual education that is based on fact. Unfortunately, there is not really such a thing as “sex school”, where both men and women learn the fundamentals of pleasure, and the differences between how men and women experience sex and pleasure. Yet sex, and sexual pleasure, is such a hugely important part of life that can bring so many benefits outside of the sexual pleasure itself - I’m sure the world would be a much happier place if everyone had a base level of knowledge in this area!
​The good news for women, their partners, and their relationships, is that a little knowledge, the right encouragement, and some open conversations, can go a long way!
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I work with women and couples, providing online and in-person programs that combine education and coaching on female passion and pleasure. While my focus is on female pleasure, I know that men will also benefit from the work I do, because if a woman is experiencing true passion and pleasure each time she has sex, she is going to want more of it, and I haven't met too many men who complain about that!
I don't want any woman to miss out - I want all women to be able to enjoy passionate and incredibly pleasurable sex, that you want more of!
So why am I talking about this? Because I've been there, I know what it's like to have problems and issues related to sex, and I know what it can do to a relationship if it's not addressed. I also know what it's like on the other side - to learn about female pleasure and sexuality, to deal with the issues, and to get to a point of being able to experience incredible passion and pleasure.
After many years of self doubt and thinking that there was something wrong with me, I finally got to a stage of being able to enjoy true sexual pleasure. It's taken years worth of self discovery, learning, research and study - plus plenty of experimentation along the way (not going to lie - the experimentation was a lot of fun, and something I try to build into and encourage in my programs!).
The other reason I'm talking about this, is because someone needs to! Most people are afraid to talk about sex and shy away from these conversations, and the issues or uncertainties they may be facing. Not me! I want to help as many people as possible, and so here I am, encouraging people to talk about sex, and more particularly, female pleasure.
I'm all about making it easier and more accessible for woman and couples to get to that point (or return to that point) of having an amazingly passionate and pleasurable sex life, because when you do, your whole world lifts to another level, and you experience an even greater passion and joy for life.
With that in mind, I've taken my lived experiences (the good and the bad), the intensive study, learning and research that I've undergone to become a Sexologist and Sex Coach, and I've designed a program for woman and couples. ​​​
Sex Education & Coaching Programs
The Passion Project's sex education and coaching programs are designed to be:
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Focused on female pleasure
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Accessible, affordable, and easily digestible
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Educational and informative (with plenty of excitement along the way)
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Grounded in facts and the latest research
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Fun and entertaining
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Supportive and encouraging of open and honest dialogue
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Online and/or in person - you choose what's right for you and the level of individual support you want.
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