WELCOME
This isn't a holiday.
It's a turning point.
Most couples were never taught how desire actually works - especially in long-term relationships.
We’re given no roadmap for navigating mismatched libidos, hormonal shifts, mental load, or the drift from lovers to co-managers of a household.
Over four nights in Rarotonga, this retreat closes that gap. Led by Sexologist, Coach and Educator Rachel Strevens, The Passion Retreat blends grounded sexual education with guided couple exercises and plenty of private time to reconnect (cue, spice).
This is not crisis therapy. It is a guided intimacy reset for couples who are stable, committed, and ready to grow into something even stronger.
You won’t just talk about intimacy. You’ll learn how to create it with your partner- how to build anticipation, communicate your desires confidently, understand female pleasure deeply, and bring real chemistry back into your relationship.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Real conversations.
Real results.
This is not a sit-in-a-circle-and-share-your-feelings kind of retreat. Across four days, you’ll step into guided conversations most couples never have — and step back into your private beachfront suite to enjoy them.
Desire & Arousal
Understand how desire actually works in long-term relationships — why it shifts, how stress and mental load affect attraction, and how to intentionally rebuild it with your partner.
Understanding Each Other
A genuine, grown-up education in how pleasure works — for her body, his confidence, and your connection as a couple.
Communication & Confidence
Learn how to clearly communicate your desires, understand your partner's, and create the kind of anticipation that makes coming home feel electric again.
Connection & Chemistry
Shared experiences woven through the programme — long sunset dinners, time in the water, unhurried mornings — so you can relax, laugh, and remember why you chose each other.
This retreat is intentionally limited to a small number of couples to preserve depth, discretion and personalised guidance.
Places are limited.
THE SETTING
Sanctuary Rarotonga.
The Lagoon of Love.
The retreat is held at Sanctuary Rarotonga — an adults-only beachfront boutique resort designed for privacy, calm and romance. There are no school runs, no work emails, no distractions. Just space to focus on each other.
Beachfront Suites
Each couple stays in a private Beachfront Suite with direct lagoon access and uninterrupted ocean views.
Aroa Lagoon
Rarotonga's finest lagoon and sunset location — crystal clear water, white sand, and a swim-up bar.
Adults Only
A boutique resort designed for those seeking peace, romance, and authentic South Pacific beauty.
Activities
Snorkelling, paddle boarding, couples' massage, swimming with turtles, and long evenings with nowhere to rush.
Many couples choose to extend their stay and enjoy additional time together — integrating what they've learned in a relaxed setting.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
What's included in your package.
Here's exactly what your investment covers.
This is not a sit-in-a-circle-and-share-your-feelings kind of retreat. Across four days, you’ll step into guided conversations most couples never have — and step back into your private beachfront suite to enjoy them.
Four Nights Accommodation
Beachfront Suite at Sanctuary Rarotonga with direct lagoon access and full ocean views.
Private Coaching Sessions
2 × 90-minute private sessions with Rachel per couple — one online before departure, one at the resort.
Group Workshops
Up to 10 hours of guided workshops and activities led by Rachel across the four days.
Daily Buffet Breakfast
Full buffet breakfast every morning — unhurried, with nowhere you need to be.
Island Night Dinner & Fire Show
One unforgettable group Island Night dinner with traditional fire show performance.
Group Lunch + Resort Access
One group lunch together, plus full access to resort facilities and activities.
Please note: Flights, airport transfers, travel insurance, and additional food & drinks are not included and should be arranged separately.
YOUR INVESTMENT
Good relationships
deserve investment.
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
Rachel's work.
In their words
"What an incredible day. It felt deeply nourishing to step into a celebratory, educational, safe, and pleasure-focused space. Your generosity and sparkling zest really touched me. The conversations around play and pleasure continue. You are such an inspiration."
Morgan G.
IGNITE EVENT ATTENDEE
"Rachel creates a space that feels safe, yet inspiring — challenging you to break free from limiting beliefs. Her approach is both fun and deeply insightful. If you're looking for a coach who understands the complexities of modern life and is fiercely dedicated to helping you thrive, I can't recommend her highly enough."
Scott B.
COACHING CLIENT
"Meeting Rachel has been a treat. She is an amazing storyteller, intelligent, and one of the most authentically present women I have ever met. She is the real deal — and I'd challenge anyone to not feel more amazing about themselves after spending time with her."
Nicky B.
EVENT ATTENDEE
YOUR HOST
Rachel Strevens
I'm the Founder of The Passion Project, and I work with women, men and couples across New Zealand to reclaim intimacy, awaken desire, and live passionately — with confidence, safety, and unapologetic warmth.
I believe great intimacy is something you can keep growing into, at any age, and at any stage of a relationship. And that with honest conversation and the right knowledge, far more is possible for most couples than they realise.
I'll bring warmth, intelligence, and just enough cheek to make the conversations that matter feel completely natural.
SEXOLOGIST
SEX COACH & EDUCATOR
ANZCAL CERTIFIED
SEXUAL HEALTH ALLIANCE (USA)
AS FEATURED IN:
NZ Herald | Woman's Day | Capsule NZ
WHAT TO EXPECT
When it happens
Coming back in 2027
Dates will be confirmed soon. Register your interest below and you'll be first to know the moment they're released — and first offered a place.
READY?
Are you ready
to prioritise your relationship?
Rarotonga returns in 2027. Register your interest now and you'll be first in line when dates and early-bird pricing are released.
Not wanting to wait? Our New Zealand retreat, The Passion Weekend, runs this September on the shores of the Rotorua Lakes — the same transformation, closer to home.
Register your interest for 2027
Provide your details below to register your interest and receive full Retreat details once the 2027 dates are released.