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Insights on Intimacy, Desire, & Relationships
Expert perspectives, education, and conversations about pleasure, intimacy, and modern relationships.



Pride, plot twists, and finally identifying as bisexual at 40
Bisexuality is not a new revelation for me. It wasn't until I turned 40, that I truly explored it, and claimed it as a part of me.

Rachel Strevens
Feb 194 min read


The Fantasies Women Aren’t Talking About (But Are Definitely Thinking About)
Wondering what the special person in your life is fantasising about this Valentines Day?

Rachel Strevens
Feb 133 min read


Christmas stress killing your sex drive? Why libido drops in December
The added stress and busyness of Christmas can work against your libido, but don't worry, you'll likely make up for it once Christmas is over!

Rachel Strevens
Jan 153 min read


What I learned at a sexologist's conference - and is NZ in a sexual recession?
So what really goes on at a Sexology conference? HINT: It's a lot more exciting than previous work conferences I've attended!

Rachel Strevens
Nov 19, 20255 min read


Sexual Healing - Ready to reignite your pleasure zone?
How do you reclaim the passion and pleasure from years gone by?

Rachel Strevens
Oct 23, 20253 min read


What consensual non-monogamy really means - and why more couples are trying it
Consensual non-monogamy is more popular than you might think. It's becoming more popular among younger generations, and a threesome is most common type of sexual fantasy there is!

Rachel Strevens
Oct 23, 20255 min read


Why so many midlife Kiwi women feel broken when it comes to sex - and what we can do about it
Sex is good for us. Yet so many women struggle with it, as we are not taught about female pleasure, desire, and intimacy, and how women experience these things differently to men.

Rachel Strevens
Oct 23, 20255 min read
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