Insights on Intimacy, Desire, & Relationships

The sex education most men received covered the basics of how sex works for men. How it works for women? Almost nothing. Most Kiwi men sitting in a high school health class learned about reproduction, STIs, and - probably not too much else. Female pleasure - how it actually works, what drives it, what it actually requires - wasn't on the curriculum. And the gap that created? It's still playing out in bedrooms across New Zealand, every single day. I see it in my work as a sexo

Here's the truth most men are never told: penis size is probably the least important factor when it comes to female pleasure. That might feel like a relief — or it might raise a few questions. Either way, let's talk about it honestly, because the myths around male anatomy and female pleasure are doing real damage to men's confidence in the bedroom. The Porn Problem If you've watched porn — and research suggests most of us have — you'll be familiar with the standard script. La

What is “normal sex”? How often are we really having sex, how long does it last, and why satisfaction matters more than numbers.

Bisexuality is not a new revelation for me. It wasn't until I turned 40, that I truly explored it, and claimed it as a part of me.

Wondering what the special person in your life is fantasising about this Valentines Day?

The added stress and busyness of Christmas can work against your libido, but don't worry, you'll likely make up for it once Christmas is over!

So what really goes on at a Sexology conference? HINT: It's a lot more exciting than previous work conferences I've attended!

How do you reclaim the passion and pleasure from years gone by?

Consensual non-monogamy is more popular than you might think. It's becoming more popular among younger generations, and a threesome is most common type of sexual fantasy there is!