🌺 End of May Offer: $1,000 off when you book before 31 May 2026 — bringing your investment down to $5,500 per couple. 🌺
WELCOME
This isn't a holiday.
It's a turning point.
Most couples were never taught how desire actually works - especially in long-term relationships.
We’re given no roadmap for navigating mismatched libidos, hormonal shifts, mental load, or the drift from lovers to co-managers of a household.
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Over four nights in Rarotonga, this retreat closes that gap. Led by Sexologist, Coach and Educator Rachel Strevens, The Passion Retreat blends grounded sexual education with guided couple exercises and plenty of private time to reconnect (cue, spice).
This is not crisis therapy. It is a guided intimacy reset for couples who are stable, committed, and ready to grow into something even stronger.
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You won’t just talk about intimacy. You’ll learn how to create it with your partner- how to build anticipation, communicate your desires confidently, understand female pleasure deeply, and bring real chemistry back into your relationship.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Real conversations.
Real results.
This is not a sit-in-a-circle-and-share-your-feelings kind of retreat. Across four days, you’ll step into guided conversations most couples never have — and step back into your private beachfront suite to enjoy them.​​
Desire & Arousal
Understand how desire actually works in long-term relationships — why it shifts, how stress and mental load affect attraction, and how to intentionally rebuild it with your partner.
Understanding Each Other
A genuine, grown-up education in how pleasure works — for her body, his confidence, and your connection as a couple.
Communication & Confidence
Learn how to clearly communicate your desires, understand your partner's, and create the kind of anticipation that makes coming home feel electric again.
Connection & Chemistry
Shared experiences woven through the programme — long sunset dinners, time in the water, unhurried mornings — so you can relax, laugh, and remember why you chose each other.
This retreat is intentionally limited to a small number of couples to preserve depth, discretion and personalised guidance.
Places are limited.
THE SETTING
Sanctuary Rarotonga.
The Lagoon of Love.
The retreat is held at Sanctuary Rarotonga — an adults-only beachfront boutique resort designed for privacy, calm and romance. There are no school runs, no work emails, no distractions. Just space to focus on each other.
Beachfront Suites
Each couple stays in a private Beachfront Suite with direct lagoon access and uninterrupted ocean views.
Aroa Lagoon
Rarotonga's finest lagoon and sunset location — crystal clear water, white sand, and a swim-up bar.
Adults Only
A boutique resort designed for those seeking peace, romance, and authentic South Pacific beauty.
Activities
Snorkelling, paddle boarding, couples' massage, swimming with turtles, and long evenings with nowhere to rush.
Many couples choose to extend their stay and enjoy additional time together — integrating what they've learned in a relaxed setting.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
What's included in your package.
Here's exactly what your investment covers.
This is not a sit-in-a-circle-and-share-your-feelings kind of retreat. Across four days, you’ll step into guided conversations most couples never have — and step back into your private beachfront suite to enjoy them.​​
Four Nights Accommodation
Beachfront Suite at Sanctuary Rarotonga with direct lagoon access and full ocean views.
Private Coaching Sessions
2 × 90-minute private sessions with Rachel per couple — one online before departure, one at the resort.
Group Workshops
Up to 10 hours of guided workshops and activities led by Rachel across the four days.
Daily Buffet Breakfast
Full buffet breakfast every morning — unhurried, with nowhere you need to be.
Island Night Dinner & Fire Show
One unforgettable group Island Night dinner with traditional fire show performance.
Group Lunch + Resort Access
One group lunch together, plus full access to resort facilities and activities.
Please note: Flights, airport transfers, travel insurance, and additional food & drinks are not included and should be arranged separately.
YOUR INVESTMENT
Good relationships
deserve investment.
END OF MAY OFFER
$1,000 off - BOOK BEFORE 31 MAY
Was $6,500 per couple
$5,500
Per Couple | Includes full programme and accommodation
Secure your place with a deposit of just $1,500, followed by four equal payments of $1,000.
Prefer to talk it through first? Reply to Rachel's email or register your interest below to book a private clarity call.
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
Rachel's work.
In their words
While this is the first time we've run a retreat in Rarotonga, we have been running events across New Zealand for many years, working to transform intimacy, confidence, and connection. Here's what people say.
"What an incredible day. It felt deeply nourishing to step into a celebratory, educational, safe, and pleasure-focused space. Your generosity and sparkling zest really touched me. The conversations around play and pleasure continue. You are such an inspiration."
Morgan G.
IGNITE EVENT ATTENDEE
"Rachel creates a space that feels safe, yet inspiring — challenging you to break free from limiting beliefs. Her approach is both fun and deeply insightful. If you're looking for a coach who understands the complexities of modern life and is fiercely dedicated to helping you thrive, I can't recommend her highly enough."
Scott B.
COACHING CLIENT
"Meeting Rachel has been a treat. She is an amazing storyteller, intelligent, and one of the most authentically present women I have ever met. She is the real deal — and I'd challenge anyone to not feel more amazing about themselves after spending time with her."
Nicky B.
EVENT ATTENDEE
YOUR HOST
Rachel Strevens
I'm the Founder of The Passion Project, and I work with women, men and couples across New Zealand to reclaim intimacy, awaken desire, and live passionately — with confidence, safety, and unapologetic sensuality.
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I believe great sex isn't just for your twenties. And that most couples are just one honest conversation away from transforming their relationship.
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I'll bring warmth, intelligence, and just enough cheek to make the conversations that matter feel completely natural.
SEXOLOGIST
SEX COACH & EDUCATOR
ANZCAL CERTIFIED
SEXUAL HEALTH ALLIANCE (USA)
AS FEATURED IN:
NZ Herald | Women's Day | Capsule NZ
WHAT TO EXPECT
When it happens
19 - 23 August 2026
Wednesday - Sunday (NZ Time)
Sanctuary | Rarotonga
Rarotonga operates one day behind New Zealand, so retreat dates locally are Tuesday 18 – Saturday 22 August. Many couples choose to arrive early or stay on to extend the experience.
