The sex education most men received covered the basics of how sex works for men. How it works for women? Almost nothing. Most Kiwi men sitting in a high school health class learned about reproduction, STIs, and - probably not too much else. Female pleasure - how it actually works, what drives it, what it actually requires - wasn't on the curriculum. And the gap that created? It's still playing out in bedrooms across New Zealand, every single day. I see it in my work as a sexo

Here's the truth most men are never told: penis size is probably the least important factor when it comes to female pleasure. That might feel like a relief — or it might raise a few questions. Either way, let's talk about it honestly, because the myths around male anatomy and female pleasure are doing real damage to men's confidence in the bedroom. The Porn Problem If you've watched porn — and research suggests most of us have — you'll be familiar with the standard script. La